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Where are you supposed to wear an anniversary ring?

Traditionally, an anniversary ring is worn above the engagement ring and the wedding band is worn below the engagement ring. Traditions are relaxing and so you should feel free to wear your anniversary ring on whichever finger suits you best.

Do I have to stick to the list of anniversary gemstones?

These suggestions are meant to inspire and to give the traditional meaning assocaited with each gemstone. Alternately, you may want to choose the gemstone for the month you were married, both your birthstones, or the birthstones of your children. The beauty is, you can define the meaning and create a unique gift to honor your anniversary.

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September 21, 2022

Thoughtful Anniversary Gift Ideas - Jewelry & More

Whether you are looking for the perfect 10 year anniversary gift, a meaningful 20th anniversary gift, or something in between, here are some great gift ideas for the first 20 years of marriage.

Anniversaries are worth celebrating

Take a moment to pause and reflect on what makes the two of you work as a couple. Whether you are celebrating your first or your 12th anniversary, it is a chance to say thank you for all those small gestures, the key moments of support and love that sustain you every day. Finding the perfect anniversary gift to commemorate your journey together can be tricky, but we have a few suggestions to help guide you.

Embrace the Romance

Perhaps you want to embrace the romantic nature of the occasion. A bouquet of the flowers from her wedding bouquet (bring a wedding photo to the florist as a reference) or a return visit to the spot where you proposed or went on your honeymoon. Jewelry, especially with the romantic pinks and reds of Pink Tourmaline, Rubies or Garnets, brings the symbolism of compassion, love and devotion. Or take her on a romantic picnic in a beautiful setting or a concert of her favorite band.

Bride holding a bouquet of white roses, red berries, green foliage, and accent flowers.

Get Creative with Numbers

Connect the number of years you have been married with the gift you choose. For example, if you have been married three years, think about gifts which have three elements like a 3 day weekend stay at a B & B, a three course dinner at a farm to table restaurant, or a 3 birthstone necklace with both your birthstones and the stone for the month of your wedding.

Woman wearing a 14k yellow gold personalized Classic 3 Birthstone necklace featuring 4mm briolette cut, bezel set gemstones.

Pamper her!

There are so many ways to step back from the bustle of life and unwind. A day at the spa complete with massage, facial and manicure can be rejuvenating. Or perhaps an annual pass to her favorite museum, a gift certificate to classes in painting, music or crafting, or a day spent at her favorite antique market are all ways to show her that you love everything about her. Sometimes, if you have young kids at home, this “me” time can be especially important.

Bath tray with a candle, flowers, moisturizing cream, and bath salts over bath water. A manicured hand touches the cream.

Draw on Tradition

You can always draw on tradition and look to the established list of themes for anniversary years. The first such list came from Emily Post in 1922 who created a list of anniversary gifts including paper, cloth, leather, flowers, and wood for the first five years. This list has been expanded over the years and can serve as an inspiration for gifting. For example, for a 5 year anniversary gift the theme is wood, which represents the deep rooted strength of your marriage. Wood themed options might include a wooden jewelry box with an inlay design, a day sailing on a wooden sailboat, or a handmade wooden cutting board if you have woodworking skills.

Wood live edge cutting board with knife and herbs, blue plate with herbs, and stone mortar and pestle set on a wooden table.

Find the perfect Gemstone

In 1937, recognizing the romantic nature of gifting jewelry for anniversaries, the American National Retail Jewelry Association created a list of gemstones associated with each anniversary. The gemstones were chosen based on traditions and on the symbolic meaning attached to the gemstones. Other major gemological associations soon followed, including the Jewelers of America, the American Gem Society, the American Gem Trade Association and the Gemological Institute of America.

Various assortment of differently shaped and colored gemstones on a white velvet background.

Many people are familiar with diamonds as the 10 year anniversary gift signifying the strength and enduring nature of the relationship. An anniversary ring with diamonds worn above the engagement ring is a classic gift for this milestone anniversary. But did you know that Rubies, a symbol of love, energy and passion, are the designated gemstone for 15th anniversary gifts and Emeralds, a symbol of rebirth, are the gemstone for 20th anniversary gifts?

Two Rosecliff Stackable Rings, two Rosecliff Circle Necklaces, and Rosecliff Small Circle ring featuring prong set gemstones.

Warren Ruby ring featuring a 10x8mm emerald cut center stone and Newport Ruby necklace featuring 4mm bezel set stones.

Rosecliff Stackable ring, single Providence stud earring, and Greenwich 4 Birthstone Necklace, all featuring emerald.

Meaningful Personalized Jewelry

Combine the gemstone with your anniversary year with a timeless design she will wear everyday, whether it be in a necklace, bracelet, earrings or ring. From understated jewelry meant for everyday wear to iconic statement pieces meant for special occasions, there are so many designs to choose from. If you need help finding the perfect fit for jewelry, check out our Sizing Guide which has lots of helpful hints.

Six rings lay side-by-side consisting of Rosecliff Stackable rings, a Grand ring, a Greenwich ring, and Warren rings.

Mother’s Rings and Necklaces

If you want to celebrate her role as mother, each month is also associated with a birthstone. You could create a personalized Mother’s necklace with each of your children’s birthstones or a set of Mother’s rings, one for each child.

Last Minute Magic

Hopefully this anniversary gemstone list is an inspiration to help you find gifts based on their symbolic significance. Explore these gemstones to find out which symbolic meaning is tied to your anniversary year. And if you are a last minute shopper, rest assured, Haverhill can create personalized jewelry for her in just 1 - 4 days. Our handcrafted designs are waiting for you to select the birthstones of your choice to create a meaningful, lasting anniversary gift she will cherish.